I was first introduced to sound healing years ago when I went to a sound healing session at a retreat. I was blown away. The session was outdoors on a wood deck surrounded by diaphanous curtains. I laid down on my back and had a small pillow filled with flax seeds and lavender cover my eyes. Then for the next hour, I was comforted by the gentle sounds ranging from chimes, to gongs, to pan flutes, to Djembe drums, to rain-sticks, to Tibetan singing bowls, to drums, to tuning forks, to crystal bowls, to a didgeridoo and more. I felt like I could have stayed in that magical place for hours. I was comforted in a way I had not experienced before. And the wonderful feeling stayed with me for days.
When I moved to Maui, I discovered a group sound healing event. This was held in a large room with shiny wood floors. We brought yoga matts, pillows, and blankets to get as comfortable as we could. We started by siting for a lovely meditation. Then we all got comfortable on the floor with our heads directed toward the center of the room where there was a huge assortment of Tibetan and crystal bowls as well as two giant gongs which provided deep vibrational sound. The sound went on for an hour and included the leader’s lovely soprano’s wordless ethereal singing. All of this enabled profound meditation, and I always felt lighter when the event was over.
I wanted to learn more about how sound healing works since it has been used for hundreds of years and believed is to heal many physical ailments. I met Julia Denise Berrey here on Maui where I live. She is a Feldenkrais practitioner who also uses crystal bowls with her healing techniques. She explained to me about how each of her bowls has a different frequency which provide different results in the way bodies react to the sound. She tells of the common belief of the difference between the frequency of 440 Hz which is believed to be man-made and addictive while the frequency of 432 is said to boost your immune system. Both frequencies sound very similar but have different effects. Lots of research has been done on this theory and the results are controversial. By searching online, you can discover in depth many of the things that sound can help heal.
Julia also told me that the frequency of 528 Hz is the frequency of love. I decided I would check this out. I found things that were recorded at 528 Hz online, so I listened to them with earphones on to get the full results. All I can say is wow. What I experienced was so comforting that I now listen to it for meditation and even for just listening to. I jumped at the opportunity to go to the beach in Wailea to experience a meditation and sound healing session hosted by my friend Carol McNulty Huffman and Julia who played her crystal bowls and a pan drum. The beautiful sounds Julia produced along with the crashing ocean waves and the drums from a luau not far away felt amazing.
I am telling you all this because self-care is absolutely essential to support you while you deal with grief. Seeking out beautiful sounds to listen to is readily available by just doing an online search. And experiencing these sounds at an in-person experience is worth the effort to find a place to do this. This is just one way you can use to help you feel better. I would love to hear of other ways you have used for self-comfort. Together we can support each other.
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Ralph Thomas says
Great article Emily. When I think of sounds I have only thought in terms of music. This blog allowed me to consider only listening to the sound in terms of the vibrations that are sent out. You are right I got on iTunes and brought up the Tibetan Singing Bowls. I listened to them as I went about my business and was enthralled for about 1 hour. Thanks.
Emily Thiroux says
I love those bowls too!