Love Everybody

Right now, in our country and our world, there is much uncertainty, anger, hate, and fear, and that’s no way to live. The good news is there are steps we all can take to improve this situation.

When dealing with grief, people generally are focusing on themselves which is understandable. So, dealing with the strife that seems endemic at present can be overwhelming. Finding a way to focus on others who could use help and doing something positive can make a difference.  You can start small. When your neighbor isn’t feeling well, take their dog for a walk, or when you make cookies, make extra to share with a friend. Every step you take helps you to move forward through your grieving.

On an even bigger scale, do things to reach more people. I know when you read some of these suggestions that you may resist doing them. I can hear people say, “I can’t do that!” But you can. The key is to focus on all the love and all the good in the world. Here are some keys to follow:

• Forgiveness. Some transgressions are so huge that the thought of forgiveness is hard to swallow. However, what good comes from holding a grudge against someone for what they have done? When you sincerely forgive someone, you can let go of what has happened.
• Gratitude. Focus on all that’s good in your life. Every day, write down at least five things you are grateful for. The more things you write, the better you’ll feel, guaranteed!
• Kindness.  Make being kind a practice in all that you do from the words you speak, to the hugs you give, and to the generosity you share. Think about how good you feel when someone is kind to you, then strive to share that feeling.
• Happiness. Start by smiling. People are experiencing so much tension that there aren’t a lot of smiles out there right now. Smile at someone till they smile back at you. Babies and toddlers love to reflect your smile, so it is easy to start there, but try it with grownups too.
• Love.  I know you love the people you are closest to, and that’s great.  The key is to love everybody else too. Imagine if there was no hate in the world. There would be no war, no violence, no crime. Wouldn’t that be amazing? Together, we can make that happen.

Start today. Your love can change the world.

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