While time may seem to stand still while in early grief, it will start picking up speed. Now, each year now seems to fly by faster than the last. The good news is there are ways you can more effectively deal with time to make it your friend. I know I say this often, but […]
Read MoreThis holiday season, give yourself the gift of being present. This season can be filled with memories which can bring you down or lift you up. Choose to focus on those good memories. When Jacques and I got married, we wanted to establish a new tradition for our Christmas dinner. His mother was from Sicily, […]
Read MoreIf you are anticipating that your holidays will not be the same as they were before, you are correct. They won’t be the same, yet when you look at all your holidays past, none of them were the same. Now is the time to take really good care of yourself and create the holidays you […]
Read MoreWhether you like it or not, change happens. Whether you want it or not, change happens. Have you ever thought about that? As much as we expect or would love for things not to change, almost everything does. When I was growing up, everyone I knew was expected to graduate from high school and get […]
Read MoreI love Marci Shimoff. She wrote Happy For No Reason, a book that changed my life. After Jacques died, I was miserable. I hadn’t smiled in months and could barely take care of myself. I had several significant health issues, and I just didn’t know where to turn. I came across Marci’s book and thought, […]
Read MoreWhen my husband Jacques died, I had many different physical symptoms like a flair of inflammation and insomnia. I spent too much time with doctors trying to find relief, but I eventually did feel better. Then when Ron’s heart started to fail, I was challenged too. My blood pressure was way too high which was […]
Read MoreDo you always tell the absolute truth? The most common answer to this question is “Of course I only tell the truth!” But do you? Really? Years ago, there were many stories that I told. I wasn’t trying to be dishonest. I was trying to feel better about myself. I felt that I could be […]
Read MoreWhen I mention the name of my podcast, Grief and Happiness, to someone, I generally get comments of how those two words don’t go together, but I know in my heart that they do. People generally think of grief being negative reminding them of great sorrow. I understand that, and I also know that grief […]
Read MoreI woke up the morning with some of the lyrics of the Beatles song A Day in Life running through my head. “I read the news today, oh boy . . . .” only I had read the news last night on Instagram. Leslie Jordan died in a single car accident after apparently having a […]
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