I love the singer, Michael Franti. I listen to his music often and I admire his commitment to people and the world and his generous soul. His new album came out recently, and one of the songs in particular on it resonated with me. The name of the song is People Need People. When I […]
Read MoreToday is my husband Ron’s birthday, so he is on my mind. I remember talking to him about what we would do if either of us was dying. He said, “I would continue as I am, making the most of every moment.” I had been thinking for me I’d want to go to Tuscany and […]
Read MoreThe thing about kindness is that anyone can be kind to anyone, and everyone involved can feel good because of this. I have a new friend, and she was telling me about a class teaching where she teaches stretching on the beach. That sounded so good to me. I have always wanted to do yoga, […]
Read MoreWe, individually, as a country, as our world, have so much to grieve right now. Every new tragedy seems to the compound the last one. We all have a tendency to pay the most attention to what happens closest to us, but the reasons to grieve right now are piling up and are widespread throughout […]
Read MoreI learned recently to not say that someone “committed” suicide as that indicates a judgment when we can’t know what inspired the person to think that suicide was the answer. Say instead: died by suicide. Since I started helping people deal with grief, I can’t tell you how many instances of suicide I have […]
Read MoreHave you felt alone, empty, disconnected, vacant, or depleted? I know I have felt all these things and many more at some point in my grief. Falling into a deep void is easy to do and can be challenging to climb out of. The good news is you can. The darkness of grief is not […]
Read MoreDo you recognize when miracles occur in your life? I hadn’t considered this before, but once I started noticing miracles, I started noticing how I have experienced so many miracles though-out my life. Miracles can be huge, and they also can be very small. You may not have thought about this before, but chances are […]
Read MoreWhen dealing with the transition of a loved one, especially someone you had money in common with, finances can be a challenge. For me this came up with both of my husbands, and also my Mother and my Aunt who I had conservatorship of. With my husbands there was much I had to do with […]
Read MoreHow are you feeling right now in this very moment about the grief you are experiencing? Think about it. Are you overwhelmed? Sad? Lonely? Confused? Angry? Everyone experiencing grief experiences all these feelings along the way. Some of us ignore them. Some of us get swallowed up in them. Some of us have a […]
Read MoreEvery Sunday the Grief and Happiness Alliance meets on Zoom to write, do happiness practices, and make friends. Last Sunday we wrote about tears. Rev Rachel Hollander, who is the President of The Grief and Happiness Alliance Nonprofit Organization, wrote this piece that touched me, so I asked if I could share it as the […]
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