How do you feel, right now, today? Are you happy? Are you sad? Maybe you feel empty, like you are in a void. Holidays bring up so many feelings. Sometimes I feel like I am on a little bit of a roller coaster. And you know what? All of this is not unusual, even if […]
Read MoreEach year I find myself giving fewer gifts of the kind I have given before. This must be the way it is for many people since I receive very few gifts anymore. And that’s OK because I have been looking at my possessions and giving away things that I don’t use, need, or enjoy anymore. […]
Read MoreChristmas used to be such a special time. When I was growing up, we celebrated with my mother’s three sisters and their families. All the children slept on the floor like a big slumber party, and we would be very quiet because we were anticipating Santa’s reindeer on the roof. And they always came! We […]
Read MoreYesterday I had the nicest surprise when I opened my mailbox and there was a small envelop with a handwritten address to me on it. Last month I received a message online about a special drive a private Hospice in Canada was doing. They asked for people to write a note of support to someone […]
Read MoreEvery Saturday people come together to write through grief with me on Zoom. This week, I was so moved by what Rev. Rachel Hollander wrote that I asked if she would share it with us for my blog post this week, and she graciously said yes. Rev. Rachel is the President of the new Grief […]
Read MoreStuff seems to accumulate. I have bookshelves full of books I won’t read again, and this is after I have donated enough books in my lifetime to have opened my own bookstore. And I have enough kitchen equipment to run a catering company, and I am sure that is because I did have a catering […]
Read MoreOriginally known as Armistice Day, November 11 is the day that was chosen to honor veterans because it is the day that is considered the end of World War One, The Great War. This occurred in 1918 on the eleventh day of the eleventh month at 11 AM. Where I grew up, Veterans Day was the biggest […]
Read MoreI am thrilled to announce the formation of The Grief and Happiness Alliance which is a membership program where you can find comfort, support, happiness, and friends. Everyone deals with grief and loss in their lifetimes. When you are in that situation, having friends to relate to who are also dealing with loss can make […]
Read MoreWe almost never know when we have a conversation with someone that it will be for the last time. In the case of someone dying from a terminal illness, you may know it is your last conversation, yet so often people die without warning, and we don’t get to have that last talk with each […]
Read MoreAre you a complainer? I certainly was at one time in my life. I didn’t see it at the time, but I was constantly criticizing. Nothing was ever quite right or good enough. I rarely was satisfied. As I reflect on that time, I can see how unhappy all that complaining was making me. My […]
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