I just received an email telling me that a friend I dearly love has “graduated from earth school.” She had been dealing with health issues for a while. I knew they were serious, and I had been praying for her. I still feel shocked. I met Rev. Dr. Joanna Thompson Gabriel when she found my […]
Read MoreOften when people are dealing with loss, they isolate themselves and focus on their loss and sadness, and the more they do this, the harder it is to focus on anything else. When a feeling like this comes up, it’s time to make a choice to help yourself. Taking good care of you is your […]
Read MoreSuicide always has multiple victims. We can never truly know what the final impetus is that causes the act. In America, the second leading cause of death in people between 10 and 34 is suicide. The largest percentage of suicides is male by far. And we have a significant increase in suicides with the […]
Read MoreUsually, I don’t write about politics and grief, yet this time it would benefit us all to address this situation. I would love to know if any of you had challenges with getting bereavement leave when you needed it. Someone I love got her dream job working for a non-profit. She worked there for years […]
Read MoreWhen my husband Ron died, I felt somewhat lost. The first few weeks were as difficult as you could imagine. I felt very alone and adrift, like I was floating through a fog where nothing made sense. When I started to come around after that, I remembered how sad I was for a long time […]
Read MoreI was first introduced to sound healing years ago when I went to a sound healing session at a retreat. I was blown away. The session was outdoors on a wood deck surrounded by diaphanous curtains. I laid down on my back and had a small pillow filled with flax seeds and lavender cover my […]
Read MoreI had the most wonderful experience this last week. My husband Jacques’s son and his wife delivered triplets almost 21 years ago, and though we met them the day they were born, and we have been in contact with them throughout the years, I hadn’t had a chance to know them individually. One of the […]
Read MoreRon transitioned 4 years ago today, so I am thinking about him lots. Fortunately, I journal every day, so I can go back through my journals and read about special times we had together and great accomplishments we shared. I find myself losing memories that have held a special place in my heart, and […]
Read MoreI’ve been thinking about comfort a lot lately. About ten years ago, I was having difficulty sleeping because of pain I had in my shoulder and hip. We had a relatively new mattress, but I could not get comfortable. My doctor suggested a specific type of mattress topper, and it brought tremendous relief. Now, all […]
Read MoreDo you feel alone sometimes? Maybe is seems that no matter how many times you say something, people just aren’t hearing you? This is not unusual, and you aren’t alone. Often when we are grieving, we just don’t feel the strength we need to keep fighting the same battle. When this happens, we usually must […]
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